For a time I worked in Washington, DC. When the weather was nice, I'd take a walk around the eastern section of the mall, between the Capitol and the Smithsonian Castle. On one particular Monday, I noticed dozens of piles of trash. Piles that were, literally, six to eight feet high. And what was in these piles ... protest signs from a "pro-choice" rally that had been held over the weekend. Hmm ... pro-choice, eh? Obviously choices are good, right? But what kind of choices were these protesters supporting?
On my way back to the office, I picked up a copy of the
Washington Post. I would have prefered the
Washington Times, but the newstand in the lobby of my building was all out. So, I did a little research and found out the choices these protestors were in favor of was, essentially, that a woman should have the "choice" of terminating their pregnancy at any time and for any reason. My first thought was, "At any time?" How about just before the doctor's going to deliver a full-term child? Yeah, they want to be able to choose to do that. In fact, they even want to be able to terminate the pregnancy while the child is in the process of being born. That sounded not only messy, but just downright cruel. Forget about the potential pain and suffering to the child, but to snuff out the child's life, just as it has finally seen the light of day (I seem to remember my children being born head first) after struggling to grow and survive for nine months in the womb ... this sudden extinction seems to be terribly tragic. It would be like Lance Armstrong being hit by a bus just as he was about to cross the finish line of the Tour de France.
Now, if I remember correctly from my days in health class in junior high school, pregnancies don't just happen on their own ... unless you believe that story about Mary and the Holy Ghost. If my memory serves me right, usually two people (preferably a man and a woman) engage in a particular activity that results in the exchange of a particular bodily fluid. When this fluid is combined with an egg in the woman's womb ... walla ... a baby has been started on its road to personhood. I also remember from health class that there were things this man and woman could do to ensure this particular activity did not result in the fluid and egg getting together. If I recall, this was something that needed to be done BEFORE this particular activity should be commenced. It's sort of like the Vikings of old ... pillage THEN burn. If you burn first, there's nothing to pillage. If you engage in the activity without making preparations, then it's too late to prevent this fluid-egg hookup.
Now, I understand that accidents happen. I hit a deer on my way home from work a couple of months ago. I didn't plan it and there was very little I could do to avoid it. It was some honking deer ... with antlers and everything. Even though I try to take precautions when I'm driving, no method of driving is completely foolproof. Sometimes that deer just wants to be hit. Likewise, sometimes the precautions taken prior to engaging in sexual intimacy just don't work. Things break or leak or the drugs don't fully counteract mother nature or whatever. Accidents do happen. And like my encounter with the deer, responsible adults who are involved in accidents have to take responsible actions. If I wish to drive at night on country roads, then I am accepting the risks that go with that - namely prancing wildlife. If I wish to engage in sexual activity, I need to accept the risks that come with it. I can try to mitigate the risks in both situations, but I'll never be able to totally eliminate them, except by abstaining from the aforementioned activities. Don't worry, we're not going there.
So far we have talked about a number of choices ... let's see, there's the choice to engage in the activity or not to engage in it as well as to either take precautions or not to take precautions. There's two choices. Now, regardless of the second choice, let's say the baby is in the oven. What are our choices at this point? Again, we really only have two choices - keep the baby until it's done or terminate it. If one chooses to terminate it, that's the end of the choices. All gone, done, finished. But, for those who wish to be "pro-choice," I would think they'd want to keep the baby until it's done so that they can make more choices. Okay, so the baby is born and then we have another choice - keep it or give it to someone else. If we give it to someone else, again, that's the end of our choices. If we keep it, then the proud parents can be introduced to the lovely world of raising a child and the, literally, thousands of choices that come with this activity. Choices like cloth or disposable, bottle or mommy, peas or carrots, paper or plastic, car or truck, Yale or Harvard, etc., etc. What a wonderful opportunity for someone who is "pro-choice." Until such time as you, or your child, are dead and gone the choices will just keep coming. How simply marvelous!
Uh, Steve ... I think you've missed the point here ... while these people say they're "pro-choice" it doesn't mean that they're in favor of having an endless string of choices to make concerning their offspring. They pretty much want to have the choice of either having the baby or terminating the pregnancy. That's really about it. Okay?Oh ... okay. Let's see if I understand. They pretty much want to be able to terminate the pregnancy just because they want to ... right? It might be a girl and they wanted a boy ... or they might not have wanted to get pregnant in the first place ... or it's a financial hardship or an inconvenience or whatever ... it just doesn't really matter. Right?
Yeah, I think you've got the idea now.Okay, well, I might be able to think of a few instances where this might be justified. Say, if the pregnancy results from incest or rape or if continuing the pregnancy might put the life of the mother at risk. I would even think, what with the latest technology we have, that if we knew early the baby was deformed or retarded or had some other serious medical issue that this might be a valid justification for terminating a pregnancy as well. I would never wish on someone the task of raising a special needs child ... especially in those instances where the child doesn't have much of a life due to its handicap. But, to allow someone to terminate a normal, healthy pregnancy just because they feel like it is pretty ridiculous. And, as we've already said, once the baby is born there yet another choice to make - keep it or give it away. And, given how widespread the problem of infertility seems to be in our society, you would think there would be dozens, if not hundreds, of couples or individuals who would be just dying to adopt a healthy infant. Right?
And some of these folks trying to adopt would probably be willing to help pay the mother's prenatal and delivery expenses ... not to mention a nice chunk of change to assuage the mother's "pain and suffering." So, potentially, a win-win situation.So, why don't more people who find themselves in this situation do just that ... put the babies up for adoption?
Good question. I think a lot of it has to do with the easy access and availability of birth control counselling - counselling which usually almost always includes abortion as a solution but not necessarily adoption. Plus, the adoption solution requires the mother to actually do something ... carry the baby for 9 months. There's no immediate gratification.I've also heard that some folks are even opposed to waiting periods or parental or spousal notifications prior to an abortion being performed. Isn't it worth taking a day or two or a week to really think about the decision to terminate a pregnancy?
One would think so. If you get a home mortgage, for instance, you've got three days to reverse your decision. Since you can't reverse an abortion, taking three days to think about it certainly seems reasonable.Hey, I just thought of something. If these folks are so "pro-choice," what choice have they given to the baby in question? The baby didn't "choose" to be conceived ... it wasn't their fault they were conceived ... yet they're the ones that would suffer, right?
Yes, them and society as a whole as we let folks indiscriminantly "terminate" pregnancies. It almost sounds like Texas justice ... "they needed killing."